What is more important for me is when I see that the other half is actively trying to do something and look for solution. And you could certainly think of these changes that woman goes through when pregnant and after giving birth as healthy ones. By reasonable I mean for example healthy issues. I do however have understanding and somehow have the ability to suppress my needs if there is some reasonable cause as barrier. For me sex and intimate life is very important part of relationship. Im not an expert but I believe there are people who have the darkest sexual fantasies or maybe they even practice them and at the same time sex is not something which could affect their relationship if went wrong. Regardless of what everyone thinks about these things in sex like intensity, positions etc it is worth mentioning how you look at sex as aspect of your relationship, which has nothing to do with sexual acts. And Im not talking about sex at all now, that was dead long before but another activities we both would enjoy. You are not with the kid all the time, you enjoy your work so take care of yourself.” It was this kind of approach that made her less attractive in my eyes and the fact that we never did any activities together to maintain our relationship. And it was always same answer like: “I dont have energy. I had few arguments with her about that trying to persuade her to do something which she enjoys and makes her happy. She always took care amazing of our kid, but when the kid went sleep she did nothing else then rolling on the sofa watching stupid never ending tv shows or browsing social networks discussing all the time how others are doing way better than us. And my fiancee was taking this even worse. but you know you dont sleep, you dont have your own time, nothing. Dont get me wrong, I never regret, I love being father. Raising a baby is difficult, you really have to be that kind of person fully devoted and obsessed with family to enjoy all parts of being parent. it wasnt about her having few pounds more after giving birth, it wasnt about boobs not having that perfect shape, it wasnt even about me seeing her giving birth, no. There were times in past two years when even if I was frustrated from not having sex, I didnt find her that attractive. She certainly is for me these days but I do admit it wasnt always like that. From what I said earlier in this post about my fiancee, the way I was describing her body, you could say that I think of her as most attractive person in the world.
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